Come on and admit the truth. You want to host a party at home but you aren t sure that you can really do it. Seems like everyone else in the world can throw fantastic parties but you break out into a cold sweat just thinking about it, right?
For some people, the thought of hosting a dinner party can feel exciting and exhilarating but it also fills them with thoughts that are both frightening and overwhelming. Take a deep breath and relax because there are some tips that can help transform you from a nervous novice into a superb entertaining diva. With a few basic organizational skills, a bit of imagination and the instinctive confidence that it will be an overall success, you are already almost half way there!
There are several things that you will need to consider when beginning to plan for the event. About 4 6 weeks before the dinner, decide on a date, choose a theme or style, decide on whether you would like the dinner to be formal or informal, create a guest list, and last but not least, give yourself a budget. Taking these first steps will set in motion a series of questions and answers that will be the basis for the remainder of the planning. See how easy it is already?!
Now you see that the basic ground rules have been set and the first important decisions have been made, let s get creative. About 3 4 weeks before the dinner it s time to plan a menu, send out invitations, decide on table settings, choose party favors and if necessary, book a caterer. Also keep in mind some of the other details such as ordering flowers for arrangements, choosing the types of beverages that will be served, and even the outfit that you will wear for the big event. But by all means, try to have some fun while you're at it!
As tedious as it may sound, the sooner you start cleaning the house in preparation for the big day, the easier it will be in the long run. About 1 2 weeks before the dinner, start cleaning! And when you're finished, now would be a great time to begin shopping for non perishables, confirming with caterers and florists and arranging for childcare if necessary. Place your special orders with the butcher, fish market or grocery store and if you feel so inclined, select some music, decide on seating arrangements and print out the place cards. The fruits of your labor will all pay off in the end!
The time for your special party is drawing near. About 2 3 days before your dinner party, purchase your remaining grocery items, check your recipes, start some food prep on those items that can be done in advance, wipe down your wares, and for goodness sakes....keep cleaning!
At last the day that you have been planning for has finally arrived. Go ahead and set your table, stock the powder room, designate an area for your guest s coats and jackets, check the ice, empty the trash, do some spot cleaning, organize your kitchen, finish cooking, and take a deep breath.
Now why don't you go ahead and get ready?.......your guests will be here before you know it!