Achieving A Strong Connection With A Woman - Learn The Secret Pua Routines!

There are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women. Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.

Some routines have been beaten to death, like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend." We're not going to waste time on these.

The Present Routine - This is a very creative routine that will help you to learn a great deal more about your "chosen" target.

It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. He called you when he got to his destination (tell them LA or Tokyo or Paris) and told you he needs you to go out and get a gift for his girlfriend. He said to spend up to $200 and he'll pay you back. The problem is, you don't know what to get her and so you're asking them to help out.

What's beautiful about this strategy is that the girls, whatever they suggest, will be revealing information about themselves. If one of the girls, for instance, recommends that you get the girlfriend a gift certificate for a day at a spa, you've learned something crucial about the girl who made the suggestion - that she loves to be pampered. If a girl suggests expensive things, accessories like Prada and YSL, you can be pretty confident that she also likes those costly accessories. Think about how useful this information can be - especially if you're patient and work at it, getting the girls to give you advice beyond the obvious. What if a girl tells you to get the girlfriend a book of poetry by a particular author?

Dating for Dummies - Women love men with a good sense of humor, and this approach will highlight yours.

The first step is to go out and get a book on dating - one of the more insipid ones, with a title like "Dating for Dummies" or something really obvious like that.

Carry it with you whenever you think you might run into women to meet. Sit down and open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never, ever use. (Don't worry, there'll be a section like that.)

This is when you each find out about the other's sense of humor. Go up to a woman you'd like to get to know better and, holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading some of the bad pickup lines out loud. You can get an awful lot of mileage out of this approach - look for the really terrible lines like "Do you come here often, baby?" and "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?"

This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard. And try this - look at her straightforwardly and, in all innocence, ask her "So how'd I do? Did it work?"

Okay, so these are just a couple of tried-and-true PUA routines that ought to help you get your foot in the door. Getting into a conversation with her, though, wasn't really your goal. Your goal was to establish a good rapport with her - enough so that you can ask her out, or at least call her later. The best way to establish rapport is to share something personal - a meaningful incident at work, or a story from your childhood. You'll find that when you open up to women personally, they'll likewise open up to you, and you'll actually feel the connection building.

It's not my style to lie about who I am, and I hope that's true for you as well. That's why I'm not going to share any of the many canned PUA routines I've heard. Think back on your life and you'll see that there are tons and tons of interesting stories - you probably never looked at them from the perspective of using them as stories that show what a great guy you are.

Your own life and experiences are always the very best foundation on which to build your own PUA routines. Sometimes, a little help is called for. Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women. Once you're more familiar with PUA routines, you'll probably be able to take some of your own life experiences and turn them into good PUA routines of your own!