Based on research, the majority of women actually yearn for more intimacy in their relationships, whether married or not. What most men do not understand is that women actually want to feel more connected with their partners and be genuinely loved.
Most women want to be deeply loved by their man, not in a *** way, but rather in a deep emotional way. They often desire to be told why their partner loves them. They also love it when their partner tells them what is it that he sees to be so special about her. Most women unconsciously yearn for flattery. It drives her crazy when her man adores her.
Most women also say that if they can have something more in their relationships, then they would want to be kissed more, held more, touched more, caressed more, and most of all, talked to more. Additionally, if a woman wants to get more ***, she would like it to be a bit more of passionate love-making, rather than a chore that she has to fulfill just because she is his wife. The bottom line is-women simply want more intimacy, whether in or out of your bedroom.
Other than being affectionate with her man, women also look for something deeper in their relationships. She wants to have an emotional connection with her man first, rather than go for purely physical connections. Hence, she wants to be a part of her man's life, before she can put down all pretenses so that she can give all that she's got in the *** aspect of the relationship.
In order to get this "deeper emotional fulfillment," a woman has to be acknowledged by her man for what she is able to contribute to their family and his life. She has to be respected as capable, and intelligent. She also needs to be appreciated for all of her special features and wonderful attributes. Also, average women want more hugs, affection and intimacy on a regular basis. Most of all, they want their men to tell them that they're beautiful, that he enjoys her, and that he wants to be with her.
As you can see, women need to get a lot of reinforcement first, before she is able to be comfortable and give her best in bed with her man. However, men on the other hand, can do without getting any kind of reinforcement or intimacy even for very long periods of time.