When it comes to lovemaking locations, let's face it, most couples confine themselves within the four walls of their bedrooms. Is it any wonder then that lovemaking becomes a bit of a routine later on? So to free your sexual spirits and be in touch again with those early, giddy days of your relationship, you should explore making love in OTHER locations of your home.
To start off this lovemaking location series, let's focus on that other `hot' place in your home - the kitchen. After you're through reading this article, I guarantee that you're not going to look at your kitchen the same way again.
How to Transform Your Kitchen to a Really `Hot Playground'
You may not think of your own kitchen as a sexual playground but that will change soon enough. All you need is a little imagination and some easy-to-do tips to transform your kitchen from cooking area to hot, lustful area.
A Little Kitchen Makeover...
First of all, take a quick look around your kitchen, is it chaotic? As you know, the brain is your biggest sex organ and one of the easiest and fastest ways to stimulate it is by visual means. Simply put, if your kitchen is disorganized, then no thoughts of sexual pleasure will ever likely cross your mind when you venture into that room.
So, first of all, tidy up the kitchen! Store things in boxes, re-arrange the cupboards and throw anything and everything you haven't used in the past 2 to 3 years! If budget is not a concern, then consider re-painting your kitchen or adding a very dark color somewhere. (I had a client who once changed his entire kitchen counter to dark red granite with broken glass beads in them that gleamed especially at night. After making that change, he claims that seeing that hot, sexy counter made him want to put his lover on top of it every time!)
If you can't spare much for this makeover, don't worry; there's plenty other you can do without spending much. For instance, change kitchen lights to ones that can be dimmed to allow for a romantic setting. Put red candles at certain areas in the kitchen too. You an even put a small red carpet with a hot and sexy design on the floor! Whatever you think will improve the romance factor in the kitchen... just do it.
A Night of Really Noisy Pots and Pans
Now that you've sexed up your kitchen, now what? Well, it's time to prepare for a romantic night of course!
Plan a romantic meal with your lover. Can't cook? Order in! A client of mine once just had pizza delivered but the table setting and romantic lights and music more than made up for his lack of cooking skills. If you CAN cook, all the better. In fact, an entree of aphrodisiacs or having an aphrodisiac-inspired menu is a great thing to carry out too.
Now dress up a bit for the occasion. We're not talking about donning on a suit here. Just make sure you're showered and smelling good. Don a shirt that's open to reveal your chest and you're good to go! (And make sure your kitchen counters are cleared of anything on top of them (more on this later...)
Now, while having your meal together, be sure to really bond with your lover. No TV, no blaring music, (no kids...), and others. Tonight, just make it all about you and her.
While having your meal, start to be naughty! Play footsie under the table. Sit beside her and run your hand up and down her thighs while you eat. In short, start building up the sexual tension!
For dessert, have something decadent like chocolate cake or ice cream with hot sauce. Share it with your lover, feeding her from your own spoon. (Be sure to dim the lights by this time! And that space on the kitchen table has been cleared...)
As you engage in more foreplay, do NOT make a move towards your bedroom. Instead, lead her on top of the kitchen table or on the kitchen counter top and make love there! Keep in mind that the height of the kitchen table and kitchen counters can help you with your lovemaking. For example, your lover on the table, you on a chair facing her, makes for excellent oral play!
Now that you know how truly hot the kitchen can be for your relationship, don't just make this a one-time thing... but don't keep a schedule either! Here's a tip: make sure to flirt with each other in the kitchen as much as possible. For instance, while she's busy peeling potatoes, make your hands busy as well by groping her a bit anywhere you want!
Kitchen Quickie Tip:
It's not always possible to plan out a full meal for some hot kitchen interlude. When feeling a bit naughty but don't have the time, simply walk into the kitchen after a shower... naked and `aroused' or have certain parts of you covered in whipped cream. (Of course, make sure no visitors are currently having tea with your partner!) The sight of you instantly tells your partner what exactly you have in mind and she'll hopefully feel the same way right away too! |
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